How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 16:42

How does one succeed in life?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

How did you become popular in school?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

That's it for today.

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Ask yourself:

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

How do I overcome attachment issues?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Procrastinates a lot.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What I need from you?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.